Each year Nate and I choose a word to summarise the last year of marriage. Year one was "revealing", year two was "adventure", and year three was "abundant". Year four we both agreed on the word "growth". To decide on the word, Nate and I will separately come up with three words on our own that we think describe the year. We then reveal our words to each other and discuss which one summarises the year the best. It's funny, but each year, our deciding word has been on each of our three worded list!This year, growth was on top because of the many ways we had seen growth. Our family grew from three members to four, our marriage had grown stronger through the grace of the Lord Jesus, and by the mercy of God, each of us had grown in our relationship with the Lord, which hugely impacts our marriage.
Just before our anniversary, Nate had read John Piper's book, This Momentary Marriage (note: meaning 'momentary' in the light of eternity). He liked it so much, that I think he has already given away 4 or 5 copies. Personally speaking, I didn't think it was possible for Nate to be a better husband. However, and profoundly, I did see him grow even more sacrificial and selfless after reading the book, especially during the hard time of serving a post-labour mum, a new born baby, and a 20 month old daughter.
We are taking a marriage class together at the Seminary this semester. One thing that our veteran professor, Dr. Cutrer and his wife, Jane, taught us and that stood out to me straight away is that though we love each other intensely, we are still such infants in knowing how to love each other. It excites me to know that God still has so much to teach us and that our marriage still has so much to grow! I pray that through journeying along the highs and lows that marriage (and life) will bring us, the Lord will continue to keep us and grow us nearer to Him and each other all our days.
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